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My son won't watch his weight
Question: I have a son who is almost bar mitzvah and struggles with borderline obesity. His physical appearance negatively impacts his social status, and our pediatrician has strongly advised a diet and exercise regimen for health reasons. Unfortunately, despite all our warnings and encouragement, our son refuses to take responsibility and limit his food consumption, and I am, frankly, concerned about his future. I would be grateful for the Rav's advice on how we can successf
Pele Yoetz
6 days ago3 min read


Fostering an Elul Atmosphere at home…
Dear Rav Levy, shlit”a I want to begin by thanking you for your beautiful, helpful column which contains such wonderful guidance in chinuch. I am a mother of young children, and as we approach the Yamim Noraim, I am uncertain how to best approach this topic with my kids. On one hand, I want them to feel the kedushah of the time and gain understanding and appreciation of teshuvah, mechilah, and cheshbon hanefesh, but on the other hand, I worry about creating tension and inst
Pele Yoetz
Sep 173 min read


"Mommy, everyone else goes on trips, and we never do!"
Dear Rav Levy shlit”a, As a mother of a large family, ba”h, I feel immense pressure during summer vacation. My kids are constantly...
Pele Yoetz
Aug 174 min read


Is My Responsibility to My Extended Family At the Expense of My Immediate Family?
Dear Rav Levy shlit”a, In the past months, I've found myself involved repeatedly in problems and issues related to my extended family....
Pele Yoetz
Jul 224 min read


I don't want to move into the shver's house...
Question: I want to begin by expressing thanks for the insightful answers and practical ideas that you share every month in this column. ...
Pele Yoetz
Jun 244 min read


A Family Dilemma: Navigating Parental Disagreements
Question: I'd like to inquire about a matter that has been troubling me deeply lately. My parents are struggling with one of my brothers,...
Pele Yoetz
May 213 min read


Teaching Derech Eretz
Q: Dear Rav Levy, Shalom u’vrachah. I’m reaching out to you because we’re navigating a tender area with some of our children, who've been...
Pele Yoetz
Apr 243 min read


How can I teach my children the importance of hakaras Hatov?
Dear Hagaon Harav Dovid Levy, shlit”a Shalom u’vrachah! I want to ask about the ideal means of teaching children to express...
Pele Yoetz
Mar 123 min read


How do I choose the right specialist for my son?
Dear Rav Levy, shlit”a I want to ask the Rav’s advice regarding my son who is already 12 years old but still struggles with reading....
Pele Yoetz
Feb 253 min read


Dealing with anger
Dear Rav Levy, Thank you so much for the enlightening discussions and tips. I have an issue that’s not comfortable to discuss in a...
Pele Yoetz
Jan 273 min read


Guiding our children to make critical choices
Dear Rabbi Levy shlit”a, I have children in shidduchim, and I’m noticing that they have a very difficult time deciding. When it comes...
Pele Yoetz
Dec 25, 20243 min read


Guiding our children to their zivug
I have a son in shidduchim, an excellent bachur who’s bright, talented, a genuine yarei Shamayim, a masmid and serious learner with...
Pele Yoetz
Nov 25, 20243 min read


The wisdom in silence
Dear Hagaon Harav Dovid Levy shlit”a, I assume that this question has been asked many times in the past, but I’d be very grateful if...
Pele Yoetz
Oct 15, 20244 min read


A Voice Cries: Elul Is Here!
Dear Pele Yoetz, Every year, when we reach Elul and Tishrei, I feel emotionally overwhelmed. It starts with the heaviness surrounding...
Pele Yoetz
Sep 30, 20244 min read


My son was not accepted into his first-choice yeshivah, what do we do??
Dear Hagaon Harav Dovid Levy shlit”a, Unfortunately, my son was not accepted into his first-choice yeshivah, and he is devastated. I am...
Pele Yoetz
Aug 28, 20243 min read


Dealing with End-of-the-Zman Syndrome
Dear Pele Yoetz, First and foremost, I want to thank you for the wonderful insights that we gain month after month through this excellent...
Pele Yoetz
Aug 1, 20244 min read


Solving chinuch disputes at home
Dear Rav Dovid Levy shlit”a, Q: I wanted to ask the Rav about the repeated arguments and disagreements that my wife and I have about...
Pele Yoetz
Jul 4, 20244 min read


Seder Night with the Whole Family
Dear Pele Yoetz, My childhood and early married life are sprinkled with beautiful, fond memories of uplifting, joyous Pesach sedarim...
Pele Yoetz
Apr 15, 20244 min read


Ad Delo Yada…
Q: I wanted to ask a question about Purim. All of my friends look forward to Purim, and when the day comes, they drink, get happy and...
Pele Yoetz
Mar 21, 20244 min read


Can a person rejoice alone?
Q: I would like to ask how to explain the mitzvah of Mishloach Manos both to my children (and to myself). Clearly, Mishloach Manos is not...
Pele Yoetz
Mar 7, 20244 min read
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